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Who (And When) We Are |
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| We tend to think or believe that we know something about the future. We often speak of the future as something "out there," distant from us and approaching. In our inquiry, we intend to distinguish where the future is located, and if, perhaps, we can create a place to stand in it that may make a difference. | ||||||||||||||||||
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The Context of Education |
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| Education is a real challenge. Under the onslaught of hitherto unseen extrinsic forces, and with its previously undistinguished intrinsic weaknesses becoming blatantly evident, education is now fully open to question. The content of education has been continually changing -- with No Child Left Behind (NCLB) and the newly reauthorized Individuals with Disabilities Education Improvement Act (IDEIA) -- and it will continue to change at an ever-increasing rate. Any attempt to either resist or keep up with these changes in content will certainly leave even the most resourceful educators hopelessly muddled. Going forward, it will be valuable to examine our currently unexamined and unintentional context for education and possibly create a new, powerful and intentional context for teaching and learning (and perhaps unlearning). | ||||||||||||||
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The Future of Marriage |
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| Our deepest, closest, most intimate relationships -- strange as it may seem -- often become an area of dissatisfaction, sadness and disempowerment in our lives. The divorce rate in the United States is now above 50%. Cold as that fact may be, it is just the tip of a ponderous iceberg, when one considers how many people are complaining and suffering in their relationships. Perhaps it is time to take a fresh look at the Being of being married (or in any committed relationship). This inquiry began as an approach to divorce and extended back to marriage and eventually has something useful and valuable to say for any relationship. If you are interested in starting, preserving or ending a marriage or relationship, this is your inquiry. |
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The End Of Slavery |
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| Over 160 years ago, the Emancipation Proclamation became law and ended more than two centuries of slavery in the United States of America. Or did it? No more than Brown v. Board of Education ended segregation fifty years ago. No more than the Civil Rights Act or Affirmative Action have ended racial discrimination. We now inquire into the persistence of slavery, which continues in our unwillingness to free ourselves from our self-invented conversations about race, ourselves and each other. This is a conversation whose time has come. | ||||||||||||
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Samantha Thomas Is... |
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| ...a self-declared Futurist. Samantha Thomas has had the privilege of working in many diverse fields in the circuitous course of her career. Her endeavors up to now have included engineering and industrial design, medicine, higher education, illustration, cartooning, music and philosophy, but none of that is really who she is. Ultimately, she is yours to create. |
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Samantha Thomas Futurist |
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The World of War |
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| By now, we have a acquired a lot of familiarity with the World of War. It is so relentless and ubiquitous that it is now simply the World in which we live. Strange that it no longer seems strange to us. For most of us, however, the war is just something on the news -- a body count or a video clip -- and it doesn't seem to have much to do with life as we live it. Whether we realize it or not, we are neglecting Peace. By failing to inquire into who we are, we are unconsciously and unintentionally Being War. It shows up all over the place. In our relationships -- even (especially) with the people closest to us -- we relate dramatically with each other and demand validation.
Will we begin to be responsible for the World we share? If we will not, and we continue to ignore the question of who we are Being and who we could Be, the ongoing existence of Human Being in the Universe is at risk. |
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It is all up to us... |
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What About Peace? It is now clear that the War in Iraq has nothing to do with "fighting terrorism," securing our Freedom, assuring Freedom for anyone else, spreading the supposed glories of democracy and free-market capitalism, or anything else you could think of that might possibly justify a war. There is simply no such thing as a just war. Consider, furthermore, that everything you believed or hoped or had been told about America is a lie. We've been bamboozled, and the lies keep coming. No matter what we've been taught, we are not the "good guys." We are not "peace keepers" or "liberators." Our soldiers are not heroes; they are criminals, and that may be the most disgusting aspect of this offensive. To take young people, who want nothing more in life than to do what is right and honorable, and turn them into war criminals, through conditioning or subtle extortion, is perhaps the gravest harm that can be inflicted on Human Beings. The federally-regulated system of education in the United States is proficient in producing mostly patriotic drones, zombies and corpses. We kill our children here. If this is upsetting -- if this offends the value placed on the inauthentic plea to "Support Our Troops" -- well, too bad. This is an opportunity to reflect on how many of "Our Troops" have died while we've been "supporting" them. What if we chose to support them in coming home? Peace is already always Just, and requires no justification. Peace is fundamentally important to the continued presence of Human Being in this Universe, along with the rest of life. Pray for Peace if you like; it doesn't really make any difference, even if you feel better doing it. Fighting or struggling for Peace is absurd and obviously the antithesis of Peace, especially if you feel better doing it. To have Peace, one must begin by Being Peace. What does it take to Be Peace? Create a way for yourself. Perhaps we could start by giving up our internal turmoil over the customary dramas in our own lives that keep us distracted, while horrendous crimes are being done in our names. Perhaps we could overcome our own coldness, deadness and stinginess to really forgive the people we love for not meeting our expectations. Maybe we can be generous and compassionate toward loved ones with whom we are angry. Although it may not make you feel better, it will certainly make a profound difference in the World. Be Peace! |
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Happiness Is ... Happiness, for most of us, is the complete confluence of all circumstances, at any given moment, such that these circumstances appear to be consistent with our expectations of how life should be. In other words, if everything turns out the way we want it, we're happy. And if things aren't the way we want them to be, we are not happy. Further, we consider that even if just the most important areas of life (according to one's individualized categorizations of life, along with one's self-invented system of relative values by which those categories are prioritized) are "handled" -- aligned with most of one's expectations for those areas of life -- then we'll be content. We think we could be happy with that. The problem with happiness, in this paradigm, is that the experience of happiness is based on present circumstances, which are generally considered to be external to oneself, and over which one clearly has no control. (Right now, what can you do about the way things are right now?) You may think or believe or know that you're in control of your life, but that's not being in control of your life. That's thinking or believing or knowing -- not being in control. A moment’s reflection will tell you that there are billions of people, trillions of other creatures -- large, small and microscopic -- and all the unquantifiable forces of Nature and the Universe working on the production of this present moment. You are not -- even in your finest, most powerful moments -- in control of your present circumstances. Remember also that circumstances change from moment to moment. Everything changes, even the rocks and mountains. The only thing that one can count on consistently is that things will change. If you are happy right now, with the circumstances right now, there is some bad news on the horizon. Things will change. Even if you are not happy, things will change. They might get better. Or worse. You might have more (or less) of a good (or bad) thing. Without a doubt, It will be different. The pursuit of happiness has never produced happiness. Trying to get happy, or at least somewhat happier, has never brought anyone any happiness. Whether or not you get the circumstances you desire, the pursuit of happiness inexorably leads to something, but not happiness. In fact, it might bring you to almost anything except happiness. It can lead to anxiety, depression, anger, fear, embarrassment or surprise, but never happiness. True happiness is the product of something you can't control by force of will, no matter what you think or believe or know about it. Seeking happiness (or anything) opens a gap between the seeker and the sought. This gap is a gaping chasm held open by one's expectations -- one's self-invented fiction of the way things ought to be. Real happiness, true joy, is found when one is willing to give up his or her expectations of how life should be, in the moment of confronting the circumstances, exactly as they are. When something comes up in life to be confronted -- something disturbing or uncomfortable, perhaps something tragic or some degree of that -- it is exactly what one needs to confront in that moment. In this paradigm of happiness, there is always the opportunity to recognize that everything is just as it should be, along with the power to create the willingness to give up the inauthentic belief that it should be some other way than it is. In Paul's epistle to the Philippians, he writes: (transliterated) Ego gar emathon en hois eimi autarkes einai. We can "learn" this, too. In the moment of being willing to give up one's expectations or preferences, in favor of what is possible in the present moment, with the circumstances exactly as they are, a miraculous thing occurs. The course of life alters. The universe bends to your willingness. Your willingness in that moment creates a clearing for a new future, and you get to declare it into existence. Paradoxically, it is this willingness to give up the pursuit of happiness that produces real happiness. |
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